WHY GIRLS LIKE JERKS
reblog and I’ll marry you
TYPICAL YOUTUBER WHITE BOYS SPEAKING THE ACTUAL TRUTH AND NOT BEING DICKS AND WOW WHAT IS THIS I HAD TO WATCH IT TWICE TO MAKE SURE I WASN’T IMAGINING THINGS WOW
Man, I was worried that they were going to take this in a bad direction, but their single biggest point was something that they kinda concluded towards the end of the video, like they didn’t plan on actually saying this one line: “Really nice guys don’t call themselves Nice Guys.” Wonderful.
Very informative, but why someone who is nice would like to be rewarded? If being nice is something you must do, then why some of the nice people complain? Does someone truly know why is this? Not just for being a jerk about it, for sure. From my own experience, and from what I’ve seen, I think I know why:
Nice guys (or nice people in general) who wants to be rewarded do so because they get no reward from life itself, that is, they have little to no emotional bonds with the common things of life, like their jobs, their responsibilities, or with their life in general, this can be because of depresion, very low self esteem, or any other emotional problem, so if you’ve lost all connection with life, then you feel like you have nothing to lose. Everyone needs some reward from life itself, like being loved, respected, or whatever, because if you don’t get this, then what’s the point? The only way they know for being rewarded in life is by being nice to the people they love, and if they don’t get something, then they are losing the only thing they have or want. Some may take a single smile or a “thank you” and that may be enough, but for others (or with time) its just not enough. For this people, trying to be nice just because that’s the right thing to do and get no reward for it, is just too emotionally draining, so if you get nothing and you don’t feel like you have other things in life, again, what’s the point? For people that have not lost conection with life (like these two emotionaly strong guys in the video), this doesn’t happen because they can be rewarded for other things, so it’s very easy, from that perspective, to think that nice people who want rewards just for being nice are being jerks for complaining, they are not, or that a really nice guy doesn’t call himself nice, you try to be nice without having other reward in life. So if you have nothing to lose, and the only thing you know for being rewarded in life fails, either you kill yourself, or you go in a killing spree… so let that sink in. Emotional problems are a bitch. Yeah… it can be anoying to see these people complain, but we must see things from all perspectives, and not just bash them because we can’t understand.